Designing for Couples

Celebrity designer Michael Payne advises how couples with opposing design tastes can find a look they both love

ATLANTA (October 23, 2006 ) – Michael Payne, renowned host and interior designer of Designing for the Sexes on HGTV, provides advice on designing for couples with opposing tastes in home décor. Payne discusses the importance of compromise and how couples can achieve a look they both love, without sacrificing their design preferences. “My goal is to achieve a sense of ownership and inspiration by both people living in a space. Both parties must feel that the space defines them and feel energized by it,” said Payne.

Question: How can couples compromise without sacrificing their personality and style?

Answer: Be open to change and look for viable alternatives to what you want in your home decor. If you want white walls and your spouse wants color, find a neutral color you both can live with. You must be flexible to change because it is inevitable and compromise is the key.

Question: What resources do you recommend homeowners use to determine what design themes will work best in their home?

Answer: Learn each others design tastes and preferences; you may find that they do not conflict as much as you first thought. Purchase several home décor and interior design magazines to go through independently. When you find an interior you love, mark it. Then go through the magazines with your partner so that you can understand the other's preferences.

Open communication with the person you are sharing a space with is fundamental. Have an honest discussion with your partner to express your desires and try to understand your partner's preferences. This entire process is about discovering what you both enjoy, and creating a space you both will love.

Question: How can homeowners blend contrasting décor to create an eclectic space that represents their design preferences?

Answer: When you mix two opposing styles, the juxtaposition of the two brings an emphasis on both of them. Displaying a very traditional china cabinet in a contemporary space will highlight the cabinet. Think of how contemporary art jumps off of the walls in a traditional setting. Mix your preferences in a way that is unexpected and fresh, so that you both appreciate the overall effect.

Question: What recommendations would you make to homeowners as they seek a compromise on flooring choices?

Answer: Typically, men prefer hard surface flooring that is low maintenance such as stone, slate and tile, but most women prefer the softness and warmth that carpet brings to a space. Compromise by purchasing a carpet, such as STAINMASTER ® carpet, that is durable and easy to clean.

Question: What recommendations do you have for couples or roommates in dispute over furniture choices?

Answer: Leather is very “macho,” and men would decorate the entire house with it if women allowed them to do so. Women typically prefer more delicate materials for furniture. The problem is that a man can not eat his chili cheese dog on a soft chenille sofa, so the piece is not practical. The solution is to either provide the man with his own “special chair,” or purchase furniture that has built in stain resistance, such as the new STAINMASTER® furniture line.

Payne obtained a bachelors degree in physics and mathematics from Southampton University in England . He then worked 10 years in the computer industry, during which he was transferred to the United States , before pursuing a career in interior design. Payne graduated from the UCLA interior design program in 1980.

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